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November 25th: Breaking the Silence, Holding Space, and Standing Together Against Violence

Violence doesn't always look like bruises. Sometimes, it sounds like blame, feels like fear, or hides behind control disguised as love. On November 25th, the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women, we pause to honor survivors, challenge silence, and advocate for safety and dignity for all. In this post, I explore what abuse can look like, how to recognize when someone may need help, and how we can each play a role in creating a world where no one has to live in fear. Healing begins with awareness — and it starts with us.

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Behind “I’m Fine”: Understanding Men’s Mental Health

Men’s mental health is often hidden in plain sight. Behind “I’m fine” can live exhaustion, grief, and emotional pressure that’s rarely named. This post explores the unique ways men — including trans men, queer men, and men of colour — experience and express emotional pain, and why creating space for that pain is both necessary and healing.

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Understanding Your Emotions: You Are Not Too Much

You’re not too much. You’re just feeling things that haven’t had space to be understood. This piece explores what our emotions are really telling us—and how we can learn to work with them, not against them.

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